FUTURE-PROOF YOUR CHILD: Parenting the Wired Generation

 

Written by Nikki Bush and Dr Graeme Codrington

Published by Penguin

Publication date:  October 2008

Retail price:  R140.00

“Stop the world, I want to get off!” is the regular refrain of time-pressured parents today. “Give me an experience and I’ll promise you a relationship,” is the mantra of their children. The world has changed. The future has changed. Childhood is changing. Raising children has never been more challenging – or potentially rewarding.

It is increasingly obvious that the world into which our young children will enter as adults, somewhere between 2020 and 2030, will be nothing like the world their parents grew up in, or even the world we currently inhabit. We need a better understanding of the world of the future in order to prepare our children in a relevant way and to ‘future-proof’ them. Future-proof your Child is a very different kind of parenting book. While it contains many useful practical hints and tips, it also focuses on the context for parenting and child development today. It convinces 21st-century parents of the essential need to change their approach to parenting future generations. This book will assist you to create a framework for your parenting experience as you embark on the highly personal adventure of raising children who will thrive in the future. It is relevant, accessible, practical and inspirational. It will take you back in time and forward into the future to help you make the best choices for your children now!

Future-proof your Child highlights the critical importance of making choices, having conversations, and consciously connecting with tomorrow’s children today.

About the authors

Creative parenting expert, Nikki Bush, is a skilled speaker and writer on child and parent development issues. She also presents popular workshops, designs educational games and judges toys. Her passion for play and connection is the driving force behind her work, which empowers parents to become more creative and effective personally and in their role as parents. Nikki is well known for offering real, relevant and practical parenting solutions, and as a sane voice in a world of confusing choices. Nikki is the proud mum of two boys.

Dr Graeme Codrington is a full-time strategy consultant with TomorrowToday.biz, a company he co-founded, as well as an author and professional speaker. He is an internationally recognised expert on corporate talent and the future of work, and speaks to over 100 000 people in at least ten different countries every year. Graeme is also well known for his work on generations, covered in his first two published books Mind Over Money and Mind the Gap. Graeme is the proud dad of three girls.

TO BUY:  

Available in major bookstores, on kalahari.com, amazon.com, amazon.uk etc.

To place your orders directly with The Bright Ideas Outfit click here: nikki@brightideasoutfit.co.za .  For registered post within South Africa add an additional R20.00. For the same postage fee you can receive both Future-proof Your Child and Easy Answers to Awkward Questions (see below) in the same envelope.

 

EASY ANSWERS TO AWKWARD QUESTIONS

Written by:  Nikki Bush & Ilze van der Merwe

Published by: Metz Press

Publication date:  June 2009

Retail price:  R130.00

Children today want and need answers to questions about physical changes in puberty and related matters, much sooner than their parents did. They are more sexualized, growing up faster, and entering puberty earlier than ever before. Yet many parents still either avoid sexuality education or miss it completely through their own ignorance or fears. This book is the answer! Written for children between the ages of 8 and 13 in an easy question and answer format, with delightful illustrations to add a fun element, it will double as an invaluable guide for parents so that they can answer their children’s questions candidly, with knowledge, sensitivity and humour

 

About the authors:

Ilze van der Merwe has two children, aged 20 and 22. She is an educational psychologist in private practice with a passion for families. She is a certified Demartini Method facilitator. Ilze is well-known for her popular parent workshop, How and When to Tell Your Children about the Birds and the Bees as well as Powerful Parent Powerful Child among others. She is a director of Bella Vida in Johannesburg. Visit http://www.bellavidacentre.co.za/  for more details.

Nikki Bush has two children aged 10 and 14. She is a creative parenting expert, inspirational speaker and author on child and parent development issues and is passionate about helping parents connect with their children. She is highly regarded among parents and educators alike and is well-known for her many dynamic presentations including Future-proof Your Child©, Parenting on the Run©, Connecting through the Noise & Clutter© and more. Visit http://www.brightideasoutfit.com/  for more details.

This book has been endorsed by Childline South Africa:

 

“A wonderful book that demystifies the process of growing up – a must for all little people in the process of becoming big people”. Lynne Cawood, Director, Childline Gauteng.

 

“Childline South Africa endorses this valuable book. Children need clear and practical information to help them develop responsible attitudes to their bodies, relationships and sexual behaviour. Ignorance about adolescence and sexuality creates vulnerability to abuse and exploitation, as well as contributing to low self-esteem and poor self-management. We applaud the simple way in which questions are asked and responded to in this book.” Joan van Niekerk, Manager: National Advocacy & Traning, Childline South Africa.

TO BUY: 

Easy Answers to Awkward Questions is available in major bookstores retailing at R130.00 as well as through kalahari.net. You can also place your orders directly with The Bright Ideas Outfit nikki@brightideasoutfit.co.za .  For delivery within South Africa add R20.00 for registered post (two books can be delivered for the same postage fee in one envelope). Please specify whether you would like the English or Afrikaans version.

ANOTHER ENDORSEMENT

Easy Answers to Awkward Questions comes at just the right time. Parents and teachers have long grappled with the complexities of sexuality education of children. Many have coped outstandingly when it comes to matters of the birds and the bees in the early years, but sexuality education for the pre-pubescent and pubescent child is a completely different matter and is not for the faint-hearted. Ilze and Nikki’s book is a considered work. It is neutral and non-judgemental, making it accessible to people from all walks of life.

Easy Answers to Awkward Questions contextualizes growing up and sexual development as normal and natural, while reinforcing that that your body has rights, that you can protect yourself and that sex is for adults – all messages that children really need to hear and understand. I believe this book will make an excellent handbook for parents and educators alike, and that children between the ages of 8 and 13 will find it an invaluable resource as it is written in the same way that they think.

Heather Smith: Recently retired principal of Wendywood Primary School, Gauteng, where she was also the Life Orientation educator (a portfolio that addressed values, morals, ethics, and life issues such as HIV/AIDS and sexuality). Recipient of the Lifetime Achievement Award in Education 2008 (National Department of Education)